Creating Life... What Can Be More Sacred?
My whole life I have
been fighting against idiots. They cannot answer me, my argument,
which is simple: you talk about meditation but you will have to give
some existential proof in human life; otherwise, people will
understand only words. You will have to give them something that can
make them aware of what is possible: love made without any guilt,
without any hurry, without thinking that you are doing something
wrong. You will be doing the best and the most right thing in the
world.
It is strange to see that people can kill without any guilt - not
one but millions of people - but they cannot create a child without
guilt.
All the religions have been nothing but a calamity.
Make love only when you are ready to be in a meditative space. And
create a meditative atmosphere while you are making love. You should
treat the place as sacred. Creating life... what can be more sacred?
Do it as beautifully, as aesthetically, as joyously as possible.
There should be no hurry. And if the two lovers meet in such an
atmosphere outside, and such a silent space within, they will
attract a soul, the highest available.
You give birth to a child according to your state of love. If every
parent is disappointed, he should think about it, that this is the
child they deserved. They never created a possibility for a higher
and more evolved soul to enter into the womb - because the male
sperm and the female egg only create an opportunity for a soul to
enter. They create the opportunity for a body, so some soul can
become embodied. But you will attract only that kind of person which
your sexual activity makes possible.
If the world is full of idiots and mediocre people, you are
responsible; I mean, parents are responsible. They never thought
about it, their children are accidental. There cannot be a bigger
crime than to create a life accidentally.
Prepare for it. And the most essential thing is to understand the
orgasmic moment: thoughtless, timeless, mindless, just a pure
awareness. In that pure awareness you can attract a Gautam Buddha.
The way you are making love, it is strange that more Adolf Hitlers,
Mussolinis, Stalins, Nadirshahs, Tamerlanes, Genghis Khans, are not
attracted. You attract only mediocre people. You don't attract the
lowest either, because for the lowest your love has to be almost a
rape. For the highest, your love has to be a meditation.
The child's life begins from the moment the soul enters into the
womb. If it has come into a meditative space, it is possible to have
a child without conditioning him. In fact, a child who is born out
of meditation cannot be conditioned; he will rebel against it. Only
mediocre people can be conditioned.
And a couple who is capable of meditativeness while making love is
no ordinary couple. They will be respectful to the child. The child
is a guest from the unknown, and you have to be respectful to the
guest. Parents who are not respectful to their children are bound to
destroy their lives. Your respect, your love, your gratitude that,
"You have chosen us as your parents," will be responded to with
deeper respect, more gratitude, more love.
And when you love a person, you cannot condition him. When you love
a person, you give him freedom, you give him protection. When you
love a person you would not like him to be just a carbon copy of
yourself, you would like him to be a unique individual.